Steven Q. Urkel is The Fonz of my generation. An instantly identifiable, memorable, and iconic sitcom character who became a pop culture phenomenon, Steve Urkel’s presence on the TGIF series Family Matters not only helped keep the show on the air for nine seasons but also made it a must-see TV show for kids and teens in the late 1980s and early 1990s.  

Much like Henry Winkler, who played The Fonz on Happy Days, Urkel was never meant to be the primary focus of Family Matters.  However, what the public wants often differs from what a TV show’s premise sets out to be, which can lead to conflict and drama behind the scenes.

In his insightful memoir, Growing Up Urkel, Jaleel White brings readers inside his life and the world of mega-stardom when his initially small role on Family Matters exploded into an unexpected cultural phenomenon.  The level-headed White and his pragmatic family were suddenly thrust into an ever-present spotlight with plenty of ups and more than its fair share of downs.  

What I loved about his autobiography was his humility and gratitude for being given such a rare opportunity in his career that few actors are ever given.  And while being Urkel on TV was a great experience, unburdening himself from the role he played for nine years and moving forward was an uphill battle that took a long time to overcome.

For better or worse, generations of TV viewers will always associate Jaleel White with his role as Steve Urkel.  I think what White added to Family Matters is a testament to his skills and instincts as a young actor.  He crafted a multi-dimensional comic character that quickly became an indelible part of the Winslow family and part of our families, too.  White’s comic timing, his ability to generate laughs with a single facial expression, and his flair for physical comedy earn him a spot as one of the best sitcom characters ever.

After Family Matters, White faced challenges stemming from the shifting television landscape and his link to his previous role. Nevertheless, his determination and eagerness to continue working as both an actor and writer tell an inspirational story about not giving up on oneself or one’s goals.

Growing Up Urkel is an excellent memoir. If you’re a fan of Family Matters or Jaleel White or like learning about the harsh realities of the TV business, this is a must-read.  

I highly recommend Growing Up Urkel by Jaleel White.